Since I have known about my DID I haven't dated. It was a lot to take in and I was also struggling with how I realized my presence in the world. That was five or more years ago. The other day I met someone. She is kind, gentle, intelligent, spiritual, (not in a religious way), just someone I would like to get to know. But than today someone close to me can't come over next weekend because her husband will be at work........... What...... So because he can't make it she is expected to not go......... AND she doesn't go............ I absolutely have no cognitive understanding of that behavior. She wants to come over but is expected not to because her husband can't come......... because he will be at work........ so she will just stay at home alone for the entire day until he gets home.......... when she could have spent the afternoon with family and friends........ What the hell is that???? I am not capable of what ever that is. So now I am thinking I should wait a little longer before dating again. Just wanted to get that out.