I agree with everyone here. It's a shame to hear that this girl finds you convenient because you sound like a genuine, sincere person who has much to offer. My friend, you are just starting out in life and you will meet so many different people. And one of them will love you for who you are, not because you are convenient. And you will fall in love again.

Take this one as experience and move on. If your relationship is just starting and she's behaving this way???? What kind of future can you possibly have? I would say get out before it's way too late and you really get hurt.

You can be honest with her. Tell her that you are looking for a different kind of relationship. One in which both people are committed to the partnership, not where you do all the work and wait around for her when she feels like going off. It sounds like she already told you "I want to be single . . ."

I know this is hard. I think we've all had a relationship where one is in love and the other less committed or unsure. This happened to my nephew, only he got the girl pregnant so did the "noble" thing and married her. Now he sits at home watching the baby (he gave up college and his future for "his love")and she "goes out".

Think about what you want from a relationship and if this one isn't providing what you are looking for, take your losses.

Best of Luck.