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Originally Posted by tinyrabbit
I think the ability to experience your T caring can often be disrupted by feelings from other relationships that you transfer in. My T said that if I didn't have all this stuff to deal with I would be able to simply see him as someone who cares about me. The fact I struggle to do this is to do with other relationships, not him.
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I too was wondering, similarly to what Tiny says, if people who felt that their parental figures didn't care, may find this is an issue with their T, but people who felt that their parents did care ( perhaps despite what they did or did not do as parents), don't doubt their T to be caring?
Personally I didn't doubt that my T1 cared, though I think she was completely misguided as a T. I've had three sessions with T2, I also see her as caring.