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Originally Posted by Annaflower
i told my T last session, and it was a major step for me. she told me she cared and she'd never abandon or drop me, and that she was glad i could trust her but wanted to focus on making it so i could trust some more people as well as her.
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This is what happened with my ex T. She correctly sensed that much of what was driving my behavior was the need to know if she was still there, between sessions, or even during sessions. Early childhood patterns no doubt.
And so she said don't worry I am not going anywhere. And she was quite amazing for a while, always coming thru for me.
And then we terminated in the middle of the ***** because she felt we weren't progressing, and she probably felt like a failure and couldn't face it. And I am still picking thru the rubble of the emotional devastation that resulted, 6 months later.