Interesting post. My hair, unless I'm going out, which I very rarely do, is always back in a pony tail. ALWAYS. People never see it down. I have to have it up at work, and I also don't like it in my face, so ponytail all the time. YET...I have T twice a week, and I wear my hair down in my sessions. It's not about how I look, I could care less. It's for, as others mentioned, being able to hide behind it. That's the ONLY reason I wear it down in therapy. It has worked well all my life to help me stay hidden behind.