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Old Apr 13, 2015, 08:57 PM
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Originally Posted by laxer12 View Post
Anyone have good advice on how to bring it up? Is it best to just be direct and say "I think I am attached to you." I don't know if I could get those words out...I think I would feel more comfortable if I am more indirect and ask her if she would ever leave me or tell her that I'm afraid of her leaving me.

I realize being direct is probably the best way but I honestly think I would sit there for 10 minutes before I was able to say it.

You could start by saying there's something you want to discuss but you are afraid. Or, you could ask her thoughts on attachment. Both of those avenues will probably tip her off. easy to say but hard to do - don't be scared I'm sure she's seen it before. it would be good to talk about.
Thanks for this!
laxer12, LonesomeTonight