Thanks A Little Lost.
I finally settled on one plan, but after all that stress, I will have to do it again shortly (moving across the country in about a month and a half).
I'm a bit frustrated that mental health parity doesn't apply to medicare...
The plan I picked has crappy mh coverage, but i is one of the best available (and the only one I can remotely afford to pick). I'm hoping plans in my new area will be a bit better. I think I will also have more help in that state though. I'm crossing my fingers.
At least I qualified for "extra help" so if I make a poor plan choice at any point, I can switch as needed.
I wish they didn't make this so darn confusing.