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Originally Posted by hankster
I seem to be doing better WITHOUT my "supports". It would just turn into long arguments about why i should be doing something differently (like seeing my mother), and them hinting there is something untoward about my relationship with my t. There is nothing untoward. It is completely toward! I feel very lucky to have him.
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Yes, it does matter who you have around you and how they help or hinder. It is also important to find your boundaries and remove elements from your life that are downers (Or outright destructive) if possible. I wouldn't consider anyone one
un-helpful a 'support' though.
At times my family can be more depressing than helpful but I am learning not to internalize that stuff and appreciate what they
can offer, even if it's limited.