i hope you can get over this, relationships take a lot of sacrifice and love. i was in accident so i never went back for my last semester.you should try to work on your degree if you can, i almost got my bachelors and was in a accident so never finished it. over 4 years of college.i do have my associates and just that gives me great pleasure knowing i did do something. a degree is so important now a days, i would suggest you work on that before getting in too deep with this person. but that is just my opinion, maybe you could be great friends first is all i'm trying to say. live in the moment every day and try your best, you sound very intelligent and i'm sure if you talked to a doc and t you might even be able to get the help you need too, good luck.