Hey Miracle, I had to deal with something like this too. Something clicked and now my fam actually believes me idk what made the difference? I'm sorry it's still for you like it was for me prior. (did that make sense?) Having to depend on someone b/c of outside factors suuuucks. People gave/give me crap for it and I'm starting to not listen but it's still hard with all those negative voices. People will assume you had the life they did so "what's wrong with you" or what you "should" be doing. I used to want to sleep all day too or stay in bed b/c why bother? Then I started doing things for me not them. Try to remember why you matter. I think having boundaries will help too and you're on the way to success with your own place .

What also has helped is telling people when they go to far (kind of already said this), but more specifically they didn't always know when they pushed my buttons they were just honestly trying to help. Reminding them can help keep communication open and help you feel secure. Hope this helps!