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Voidshadow · Apr 14, 2015, 09:04 PM

Possible trigger:

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Originally Posted by AzulOscuro

In that case, it's worse if you have to be close to these people. The things would be tell them how you want to be treated, do it in the same way with them and set boundaries. I'm very bad at setting bounderies.

Ah, wait. There is another way, don't take them seriously and avoid taking their remarks as personal but I have to confess that I take very bad criticisms.
In the case of my father, I don't take it personal bc I know how he is with everyone. So, I sometimes laugh with him about how controller he tries to be.

Yea.., about that. That's a part of the reason why my older brother moved out so quickly when he could, even tho my mom thinks it's mostly because of bad behaviour on my and my other siblings part (which my older brother says it was partly, but the former reason was the largest reason) But the person I have to deal with being my mom, and occasionally my dad, (him very rarely tho, as there isn't enough interaction to induce that type of thing, especially since he isn't the "alpha") So it's not like I can ignore her, except for letting the tide break over me, and then sorting out my personal emotional stuff privately. Had a saying from my older brother “Don't let your negative emotions show, and cry yourself to sleep.” He had to follow this for a part of his childhood, (don't know which parts, and not gonna ask, he was with my mom before she met my dad, soo...) It's just so frustrating that I lack the ability to do much, and that my life is being twiddled away because of it.
That's kinda another reason why I wish to find someone. http://forums.psychcentral.com/depre...ng-myself.html

Anyways, your welcome Keylost, I'm glad we could help you, just let us know if anything comes up!

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