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Originally Posted by UCMATH
I've been there with an ex and a few old friends. It might be very helpful if your boyfriend could go to an appointment or to group therapy with you.
Maybe you could also tell him that you were dead wrong about your dad. You saw your father's episodes and made the assumption that everything he said while manic was a reflection of how he really felt instead of being the result of an illness. You didn't fully grasp what it's like to have a manic episode until you had one of your own.
I hope things work out. 
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I have told him I was wrong and about how I just wanted it to be true. He just thinks I'm lying to cover for myself, though. He never actually says "you're lying", but he definitely doesn't believe me when I tell him.
I haven't been going to my therapy appointments as regularly as I should've been, so, at this point, I don't think it would help much with explaining my feelings.

Eventually, (hopefully there's an eventually to look forward to) that's the plan. I've got an appointment on Thursday, though. Wish me luck.