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Originally Posted by growlycat
Thanks, rainbow. My T said something to the effect that my progress or lack of progress only hurts me, not him. I know he meant it in a positive way, but all I hear is that he isn't invested in the outcome of my treatment aka he doesn't care about me.
You have made progress Rainbow, there is a shift in the way you talk about your T. Growing up certain parts doesn't mean you lose emotional needs. You still get those.
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Oh, I thought you talked to him again ABOUT what he said about lack of progress only hurting you. I wouldn't like it if my T said that either. It's like when she brings up that we're not friends. But both of our Ts DO care a lot about us. You're hearing something that's not true. It's just that they don't care the wah we wish they would, but those wishes are probably transference.
Thanks for saying I've made progress. Yeah, I realize T can only satisfy me partially, and temporarily. It's hard to accept that but I know it's true.
I have to go to sleep now so can't post anymore. I hope you feel better tomorrow, growly.
