I haven't spoken much about all of it, but I have spoken a tiny little bit. My t looked mostly sad, empathic and with genuine understanding of what was being said and how I was feeling talking about it. She has been slightly 'surprised' once or twice, and openly acknowledged her reaction of being somewhat ataken back about something I'd said that someone else had done or said (something completely absurd - because sometimes abusive things can be totally absurd). And those times we've laughed and laughed about it, and her inability to respond, together with complete understanding of the humourous nature of the moment. I'm not sure how I would respond to complete shock on the t's part, it depends how it was handled.