I’m not sure how old you are, but your boyfriend sounds very immature and disrespectful. Are you paying his bills and keeping his car kept up? He needs to grow up and take responsibility for his own stuff. It sounds like you are being his mother, not his girlfriend. Get me this or give me that, NO. This is completely disrespectful, even if he is joking. He shouldn’t be acting that way in front of you folks. You are not his slave and more so, not his mommy.

Have you spoken to him about your father and brother’s views on him being disrespectful? He should be trying to set a good example especially in front of your parents. Showing them that he is responsible, kind, caring, and would do anything for you. Going out of his way to impress your folks and you.

Your parents were your age once, they made many mistakes and learned from those mistakes. Maybe you need to learn from yours, or consider listening to them. They have many more experiences to draw from.

If you want to continue your relationship with your boyfriend, maybe a serious sit down discussion should take place. Expressing what is acceptable behavior and what isn’t. Ask yourself what you want out of a long lasting relationship and partner? Is he going to be able to give you that?

Good luck!