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Old Apr 15, 2015, 10:02 AM
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Originally Posted by ThingWithFeathers View Post
Given you wished you had spoken with her about it AND that she said to call her, would picking up the phone be something you'd consider?
left a message last night about the hw, then back-tracked about an hour later and left another message asking her to ignore the first one...

don't want to be super annoying with the whole "I'm not going to bug you" then turn around and bug her a bunch anyway...

she did give a time-frame where she would be more available for a phone check-in, and maybe by then I'll be back to being ok with bugging her for a bit.

I think I'm realizing I need to initially decline any offer of support before I can come around and admit I need it. thinking it's a combo of being SO worried about pissing her off and desperately needing to believe I'm self-sufficient...
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