hi promiscuous petal
if she irritates you that much, then why do you even consider being friends with her still? it only adds unnecessary drama to your life. if you want to look into it deeper put a pro/con list together. on the pro side list all the benefits of this relationship with her, the good things about her. there has to be reasons you became friends in the first place. on the con side, put all the drawbacks. the things in this post. the things that irritate you. then evaluate the list. do the good things outweigh the bad? or is there just too many irritating things about her to make the good stuff worth it? then make your decision based on that.
welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome