Hello Fiend, wow does his sound familiar (even to the part of it being an aunt!) While it's not the worst thing in the world imo you totally have the right to sit down with your mom and discuss it. I've been there repeated myself over and over, now this is personal mom. But time and time again when I mess up the whoooole family knows about it the day after. This can have serious consequences on your self-esteem. So it's really up to you if you want to talk 1 on 1 I see nothing wrong with it. Good news- generally when you do that it does work then they know you're serious and it really hurts. Bad news? - it may not. In which case you may need to talk more. Feel free to keep posting or msg me if needed . As for that last part keeping her out of the loop should be last resort imo. If you really can't take it anymore talk ONLY to someone you trust and feel safe with. Then when ready open up again slowly. It worked really well for my sis and I use it every now and then. Hope this helps!