^ Hex is right . More specifically, since you want someone quiet like you it's gonna be harder for that match up to happen naturally, but it prob will, just will take longer. Age also helps, everyone is more accepting as they get older (in general). Which reminds me they all may be in school and focusing on their jobs. (sounds like an excuse but nowadays people are in fear of getting a good job) Imo careful not to sell yourself short you sound down to earth and humble very rare these days. (and humor there too ) Hang in there!