I think of two scriptures first, when thinking about being angry (at) God... He says, Come now and let us reason together. and... He says, Trust me, try me, prove me says the Lord God of Hosts and see if I will not pour out a blessing upon you...

God knows us better than we know ourselves, and when he says let us REASON together, LOL he understands our lack of it, and how we just don't understand HIS reasoning most of the time.

God loves us, and "upbraideth not" for our ignorance as long as we come to Him with our issues.