Hello and welcome to Psych Central confused4now!!! It's nice to meet you. You have joined a community of warm and caring members who will want to offer you support and advice. Yours is welcome as well.

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I'm in 100% agreement with the advice kaliope just gave you. I'm sorry you're having these red flags go up after 17 years. I would not ignore them. Best wishes!!!

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