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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
No one is feeding her the BS of how he is gonna be great if she sticks around though. Every post here that I have seen has recommended she make plans to end the relationship. Six years? well, she was what, 18 when this began, um not too many 18 year olds know the signs of potential toxic. I did not see it when I was 18. Plus he was older, still is but is not maturing, but now that she is married to him is showing his true colors. Yeah, it happens, it happened to me, happens to a lot of people, that is why they invented "divorce".  |
OP isn't interested in ending it though. She keeps saying she wants to fix it. (If only his dad spoke to him if only he went to therapy if only he got a different job etc) He is never even home for her to fix it! She saw a lawyer about putting her name on his house not to divorce. For me your suggestion to take time and not rush sounded like giving her yet another hope that it might improve. In my opinion there is no need to take it slow. If she only knew him for a year then maybe but after 6 years if it is bad there is there is little hope
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