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Default Apr 16, 2015 at 11:33 AM
 
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Originally Posted by BlessedRhiannon View Post
You probably don't need to apologize, but you could certainly tell your T that you feel like you need to apologize and explain why.

I struggle with this, because I feel like I need to apologize for everything, including just existing, so I've started checking with my T. I'll email or say "I feel like I should apologize, but I'm not sure if it's necessary" and then explain what I'm thinking. My T will often talk about it with me and help me figure out if an apology is really warranted or not. In almost 6 years, she's only said that an apology was probably warranted twice. I, on the other hand, feel like I need to apologize to her nearly every session.
Thank you so much! I just feel really guilty about not being able to open up and I also apologize for everything.
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