Thanks for this! This excerpt certainly explains a lot for me.

FROM THE WEBSITE:
Remember that watching you do something is not the best way for your child to learn. Instead, instruct them in a step-by-step manner. Reminder lists of even basic tasks such as daily hygiene and simple chores are very helpful. It is all right to point out to them what they may not yet have recognized about themselves, i.e., "You do much better when you know what's going to happen than when you get unexpected surprises." Constructive suggestions rather than criticism work best.