Well today I spoke with my sister about the past and about our father and such, not many memories has returned so far but we both got so much off our shoulders about what we went through (It turns out i was living with my father for about 5ish years and i was closer to 9 when i started seeing him again) so i guess my mind is more or less holding back 3ish years of memories (ah it going to be "fun" remembering those) and generally everything i remember i said and everything she remembered was said.
(Just wanted to update you guys on stuff and thanks you all were a great help)