awww I didn't mean that the way it sounded. Just concerned that's all as so many people who are substance users truly give up and it pains me to see that. I'll write more about my experience with schema, my laptop battery is dying but I'll write more shortly. I hope you can do some work with him on schemas. It will really help, I am/was the most messed up completely freaked out person you could ever hope to meet. Now I am just moderately so. Kidding here. Keep posting and filling us in on what's going on.