It seems a little odd that your pdoc would support your continuing with a T who stated that she doesn't have the skills to help you anymore. I would definitely see the potential new Ts and see how they plan to treat you. I would tell them what your T said, and ask if they believe have the skills/knowledge to help you now. Then you can make your decision. It also depends on what your current T decides and what she is willing and able to do differently. Good luck. I'm sorry this is such a difficult time for you.