Thanks for posting, pinkflower17! Not off base at all, I think that makes complete sense. You're right, I think I need more physicality to feel loved, I'm not sure what she needs but I think its more material, or like going out and doing an activity, whereas I like to just stay home.

And yes, she has a lot of depression issues. She also has an extremely low sex drive, while mine is very high. Unfortunately there is no way we can get her to a doctor because she doesn't have health insurance because she lost her job. I know for sure losing her job has made her feel really bad, so I guess I have to keep that in mind. But still, I am very frustrated.