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Originally Posted by Open Eyes
That is "you" though. Well, this is the OP's life, she will be the one who will be living with her decisions. Hopefully, this thread has enlightened her and given her food for thought, many have stepped forward and taken time to point out the red flags they see, how they wish they did differently and perhaps she will take away some things that will actually "help" her going forward.
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Everything that I have read has helped me a lot. Like some have said, maybe some of the signs were there and I just didnt see them. He and we together have always (last 6 years) been happy go lucky and we were inseparable. When I said that he wasn't like this the last six years. I really mean it.
He has changed and yes he is blaming me for everything starting with what I have already said.
Now that I have been back in the house, he has complained about work. He has had another job offer (a previous employer) but wont take it because he doesnt like to sit in meetings. Thats his excuse. I do think he is also going through some type of depression because when I showed him a picture of himself from years ago. His comment was that person is a looser and cant get his life together. His words.
Three weeks to go and I am moving along fine. I'm gone most of tomorrow due to work.
I do appreciate all of the comments. I originally posted to see what outsiders picked up on that I didnt. Now I do see it.