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Old Apr 17, 2015, 01:30 PM
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Originally Posted by misskeena View Post
I don't think I like repeating the same pattern. I don't know that she's necessarily advocating it like, "Go out and date 10 people who are absolutely wrong for you so you can grow," I think it's that yeah, that happens, use it as a learning experience.

Hey, I thought it was a positive article, it helped me think of something differently and I thought I'd share. Sorry. I guess I was wrong. What else is new. My bad.

You aren't wrong at all and thank you for sharing. I agree we most certainly grow and learn from our mistakes (or we don't lol). I am just concerned somebody might assume it is s good excuse to be in bad relationships. We are all different though and we all benefit from different things. There is no right or wrong, whatever works for the person. I recall there was a thread where someone advocated for herself "needing to be abused". No one needs to be abused or be in bad relationships. I wouldn't wish it on my child so I don't wish that on anyone. But sure we all learn and grow one way or the other

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