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Originally Posted by CANDC
Misskeena, you are only averaging one post a day! That is not much. I post 7 a day. No worry.
Are you on your last semester of school? What about calling a stoppage to worrying about men till you finish school. Have tunnel vision. Just focus on that.
In general, guys with some emotional substance don't get entrapped by physical beauty but are attracted to a person with integrity and sincerity. Getting your degree seems to be very important.
Make sure you eat a high protein diet (low carbs) to maintain proper brain function. Exercise is good but not to the point of exhaustion. Leave something in the work out room so you have energy to study.
Hang in there. There are over 3 billion guys in the world. You will find one when you land that degree.
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I haven't been attracted to anyone since probably 2009. I am anything but boy crazy so...yeah. Worrying about men isn't really my thing.
PLEASE people stop telling me I will find someone when ____ . I haven't dated in 6 years. My last relationship was in 2009, and it lasted 2 months. He was a loser who hasn't paid taxes in 7 years and was arrested on suspicion of murder last year. Oh wait, I've dated since then but only because I thought I should, because I was paying for online dating. No one I was really interested in.
Honestly, men don't pay attention to me; I know you're trying to help but that advice just sounds hollow and trite, and it hurts. And this isn't about a guy anyway, it's about me and the fact that people don't give a crap about me beyond how I perform academically or at work. That's pretty much all I'm good for. They tell me how good a job I'm doing, how smart I am, but no one wants to have any kind of real relationship with me beyond that. Just once I want to hear that I'm kind, funny, attractive, that people want to spend time with me. I'd rather be a crap worker and an idiot and just have people want to be with me. I suppose maybe if I were nicer more of the time...but I've tried that. Nice, mean, angry, peaceful...it doesn't matter. It all has the same result. People freaking ignore me. Men reject me.
I'm worthless