You keep saying that he "blames" you for "everything." What is the "everything." That is an odd use of language . . . like "things" went wrong and blame has to be apportioned. But I'm not hearing that any real problem occurred, other than he is unhappy.

If he is unhappy that you are not cooking dinner ecvery evening, that's a "complaint," not a case of blaming. He sure does sound like a complainer, and he complains both at work and at home. That tends to be a feature of immaturityor irritability. It's not a mark of stubborness, a term you use a lot without really explaining how he demonstrates that trait. You've sounded to me like a person speaking English as a second language. That's part of why we've wondered about your cultural background.

Unlike others, I'm not saying you should leave him. A lot of people would rather stay in a strained relationship, than be alone. You don't sound like you are deeply distressed.