He could be a "rescuer"....
If he is, I do advise to run. But, don't just assume that he's a "rescuer"...
I had one of my own last year. I have PTSD and he was the first guy who was SO supportive, SO interested in doing anything and everything that he could to make me better... I was like WOW! I'd never met anyone who was so supportive of me so of course I ate it all up. But then.... I finally figured out that I was the broken one, the damsel in distress that he could rescue. Oh, and not only rescue, but use me as an excuse to continue to deny his own problems (alcoholism, etc). Funny thing is, I'm fiercely independent and don't need anyone to rescue me! That's so not my deal...
So keep an open eye... Watch how he approaches your struggles and such.
I hope he's not a "fixer" or a "rescuer". But, maybe your radar has been set off for a good reason and there is something about him that doesn't sit quite right with you, but you can't quite put your finger on it. Whatever your gut is telling you to do, go with it...
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