hi varahh
whether it was a mistake or he understands, the fact is that you are continueing to be assaulted against your will and pressured to do something you dont want to do and this is not "safe' for you at this time. if he doesnt understand he will not stop and if he does, he is being careless of your feelings and mental healht. you need to take steps to take care of you. welcome to psych central. you will find we have several forums where you can post about your concerns and receive feedback from other members. you will get a lot of support here. again, welcome