Please correct me if I'm wrong but it sounds like you're afraid of getting closer so you want to end it? If it were me I would want the relationship to last (since it sounds like it's going so well). Or am I confused on this? ^ yeah don't worry about trying to sound a certain way. best thing imo is to be honest. If it doesn't work then you just end it anyways (is this pessimistic?) . Either way I hope you find happiness