Thank you so much OE!
Just last night I had a major flashback over something my husband did/said which has sent me into a severe depressive episode that I'm still experiencing and if history is any indicator, could go on for the next several days. Right now, I don't know that it would help a whole lot to show him this, but once I get more 'back to normal' (define normal, LOL!) I think I could share it with him and discuss it rationally.
Right now I am anything but rational.