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Originally Posted by NewLyfeForReal
Nerdy, antisocial and smart guys are likey not going to be the ones to initiate the first conversation because they're - antisocial - and likely afraid of rejection just like you. Don't be afraid to start the first conversation with a guy you're interested in. I initiated it, and 4 years later 'nerdy, antisocial & smart guy' and I are still happily together. Good luck!
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This is it exactly. I was nerdy antisocial smart guy, but was so terrified of rejection I wouldn't approach any girls. It wasn't until I forced myself out of my comfort zone and *gasp* talked to girls that things started to click in place.
The approach I used was to talk to girls with the purpose of feeling comfortable talking to girls. No romantic ideas, just talk like normal people. I learned pretty quickly girls aren't that scary (usually), which gave me more confidence to try being a little flirty with ones I was interested in, and when it was reciprocated things went from there.