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Originally Posted by divine1966
Hhhmm about therapists. It suck so sorry.
Why would they all say same thing? Could it be that they did have a goal for you but it didn't register as they weren't specific? When you talk to them do you share deep pains? Do you ask questions?
Do you ask what the goal is? Maybe ask?
Could it be a bit as it is on here.? You share which is tough to do and it is so commendable but you are resistant to any advice or suggestion or even to empathy? Like no matter what people say you respond with no. Could it be that you resistant in therapy and with people irl in general? (We all are at times). Then on therApy it becomes you just talk and here it will become you just vent. And at the end there is no improvement in relating to people. You said it is not just men. Have you asked yourself why? At least to be aware of your own contribution
Just because angles didn't sing yet does not mean they will not. Most certainly do not date men whom you don't want to be around.
I wish you had a therapist who could really help.
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I don't understand this post.
If I'm so resistant, why keep responding? Maybe I say "no" because I've actually tried what people are suggesting and it doesn't work. Should I say "Hey, you're right, I've never tried that!" just to be agreeable? I would be lying. Honestly...you aren't compelled to respond to anything I post.
I didn't say it was all therapists. I was specific about my last one. What I said was all therapists was that, at the beginning of therapy sessions they ask what you want to talk about and then let you talk with little to no input.
And you know, this is the second or third time my "venting" has been brought up. I'm certainly not the only person on PC who does this. But hey, feel free to make me feel even worse than I already do. Sorry I post so much...my average of 1.23 posts a day. I'll take it down a notch.
Somebody please close this thread. I'm over it.