I voted yes, and I don't like it... but it was a toss up, because it does have its positives and negatives. For me, more negative though. I would much prefer to just go in there and talk about what I need to talk about, and leave, without looking back. I just told her last week that I care about her, but I don't think it's right and don't like it. It came about because my answer to a couple of her questions was "I don't really care." She asked what I DO care about, and that's when I said that.

I certainly understand a Ts job isn't often easy. But at the same time, I would imagine some people get pretty big headed over having so many people caring so much about them. Ts have a great deal of power. And I'm quite sure they know that. I'm not saying my T is big headed at all, I don't believe she is. But I imagine many of them are.