If you're not a therapist then what you're saying you do with clients is irrelevant to therapy termination. It doesn't make any sense bringing that into the discussion.

I have seen so many people here say they have the perfect therapist and then later get badly damaged by that same therapist. This happens over and over and over. Sometimes therapists just suck.

And there is LOTS of blame here on this site because no one wants to believe a therapist could do something like that.