Hi eden, yes you're not forcing anyone to answer here when you're posting/making threads.
It's what PC's about, there are so many caring people on here who answer because they want to
I just wish I was able to give you more help, there are plenty more "qualified" people on here than me, but one thing I can guarantee is that I'm answering because I want to.
And IRL, well there are going to be people who want to help too........it's maybe as much about hanging in there, finding them and giving them that chance to show they want to help.......and always that first step of letting them know how it really is.
But for now.....keep on posting, threading, hey?? We're here for you.

Alison