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Old Apr 18, 2015, 06:25 PM
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Originally Posted by misskeena View Post
HAHA we have hands-free sinks at work. I constantly walk up to my sinks at home and get frustrated when the water won't turn on when I hold my hands (or coffee pot) under the faucet.


I've been learning not to trust that belief that others have it so easy. Or that other people are so great and I suck. Or that certain unpleasant people at work, for example, are liked by everyone and it's just me, my problem that I can't get along with them, that I'm the only one who sees their dysfunction. I'm learning that what I'm seeing in other people is more often than not, accurate. It's difficult to trust your own instincts when, sometimes, your instincts get you hurt. But, for example, when you feel overwhelmingly like someone is just a massive PITA and not really a nice person, all told, then you're probably not the only one who is seeing that. I hope I'm making sense.

Yes you make sense.

We had this one nutso at work. I Am always nice and friendly with coworkers but I refused to be friendly with her. I just couldn't be nice to her. I just knew she is not only not fully there she is not a good person. Well she was recently let go for calling kids names and making fun of their looks and weight right to their face. I am not kidding. My guts didn't lie

Others had their suspicions about her but not as strong as mine

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