My son is a 20 year college student who was driving a 13 year old car. On one occasion last school semester he was not able to make it to a single class because of car issues. We had an opportunity for him to get a decent trade in for his car and then a car payment of only $140.00 a month. The car would need to be in my name because he doesn't have the credit to make a purchase such as this. She felt I was enabling him and he needed to figure out a solution to this problem. Getting a great deal on a new reliable car for my son to attend college was very reasonable to me. It was also with the understanding if he could pay the loan payment since it was reasonable, he would. It's not like I said that I was getting him a new car and paying for every cent of it?!