I feel like I love my T (not in an ET sort of way), but I barely LOOK at her during session. I honestly can't usually tell you after a session what she was wearing. I just know always heels....because I hear those heels when she walks. And I always focus on something to stare at in the room...and the closest I've ever come to looking at her is catching myself staring at her feet. I've always had an issue with eye contact with people unless I'm really comfortable with them...and I'm not really comfortable in therapy. I glance at her here and there, but usually during my sessions I'm facing away from her out of choice. Not just my head, but my whole body. (I'll sit sideways on the couch and stare at her bookshelf or something).