We all had dinner Friday night. Turns out that he was having an allergy flair up and had an ear infection. Yet again my brother was like I told you to go to the doctor BUT NO!!!!! Not until sissy told you to go.

Our dad sighed and said I know I know. Then he shrugged and said maybe it's that my dad never listened to me or the fact that I feel horrible for not taking you kids and leaving your mom sooner. He started to cry a little and told my brother that his biggest regret in life was not sticking up for me more when I was growing up. Then he also said that I was so stubborn there was no point in not listening because if I said it IT was going to happen and it's easier to give in than fight.

It just kills me that he's aware of it but still can't stop it

And Hankster favoritism has always gotten my dander up. All it does is hurt feelings and it's just not right or fair.