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Originally Posted by rainbow8
musinglizzy, do you ever talk to your T about your trouble with eye contact? I have trouble with it too, but usually I look directly into my T's eyes. It's a little scary but feels so good!
Mouse, I'm still in that stage with my T, then. Sometimes, that is. I want to bury myself in her clothes and play with her hair! It's difficult to concentrate on other issues when I feel like that. I should have told her how I felt when I told her she looked good. I knew it was distracting me.
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No...I actually haven't. I'm sure she's noticed, I've been seeing her for almost a year.... and spend 99.9% of my session looking the other way. Much worse when I'm crying, because I don't want her to see. In "real life," my hair is up in a pony tail ALL the time. But, when I go to therapy, I leave it down...so I can "hide" behind it.