{{{{{{{{{{saudy}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} I had a relationship like that quite a few years ago. I can relate completely. The break-up came because he couldn't forgive me for something I did and flat refused to understand. I thought we had something wonderful. We even met face to face and it went well, but in the end... well... he wouldn't forgive me for a small indiscretion. Unlike you, it took me quite a while to get over it. I was separated from my husband at the time, so I guess you could say I put myself through two heartbreaks at once. That's when I decided that I'd never let myself care that much again... for ANYONE! I locked up my heart nice and tight! In so many ways, Saudy, you're a whole lot farther ahead of the game than I was.

One word of caution: Don't stuff any feelings of hurt or disappointment you may have. It will just come back to haunt you later.

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