I am not big on a therapist caring at me. If they can do it and keep it to themselves, have at it. I doubt either of the ones I see now care, and I don't know what caring one way or the other would have to do with why I go. I feel no connection to the therapist. I do not see the point. I doubt they are connected to me -I have not seen it if they are. I am not connected or attached to the dentist or electrician or plumber I hire either. Therapists, for me, are just people I hire for a specific purpose- like the dentist and so on. Therapists are not part of my actual life.
In my real life, connection and attachment are both there and is fine. I do think there is a difference between attachment and connection.