No I don't think he makes me feel bad. The situation with his mom is of course very "normal" to him, because of course, it's his mom. He's the kind of guy that can debate for hours about stuff like politics, and technology, whatever the subject is and I think that's who gets it from. However his mother also gossips, which he doesn't really. But when they talk on the phone he does engage with the gossip a bit. It's like it's just the normal flow of the conversation for them, or maybe it's just to flatter her "yes mom whatever you say". I've recently made him more aware, and I think he has taken note. I don't expect him to entirely change, and I'll probably need to remind him. It couldn't hurt to have less gossip in this world right?
Thank you for your thoughtful reply.
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Originally Posted by Keyslost
My dad's gf is very opinionated herself. Not exactly the same but I know what that's like getting criticized by family you should be able to trust. Imo you don't have to like her just remember you're awesome and try to be decent (which it sounds like you are ) I am curious though does your husband make you feel bad? Couldn't quite tell there and being in a relationship myself with the mom and gf judging hurt more than I thought it would. Don't mean to pry just wanted to help if possible |