Thanks everyone for your replies they are very helpful. Well it has been an emotional weekend for me, my husband and daughter. We have talked with her alot, she has cried and said she wouldnt SI again. It was so healing for her to talk things through, she did a lot with my husband on their own. What touched me alot was when she showed him her wrist he kissed it and she just cried in his arms.

I am so glad and relieved to say that she has also been to the school counsellor for the first time today and apparently spent quite some time with her. She seems much happier and content in herself too.

Thanks again. I hope I dont have to visit again either, take care all